hmm... The jollyness of valentine is wearing off from some people's faces already (most likely 'cos they didn't have a val)..... but I know someone that will find it difficult to forget about it...... yeah as you may wonder.... he had such a beautiful time..... but more importantly... the dinner ran into hundred of pounds ........ wao..... but hold it...cos in a few days.... its gonna be more than worth it..... he's a friend by the way..... (You better become friends with me..... we're rich)..... lol....


LOVE

It is a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person

Some people call it a feeling…even though you can’t actually feel it with your hands… something in you has been programmed to be receptive to the transmission of love radars.

A short cut to the importance of “love” is … If you love somebody, you would not want to hurt him/her in any way. Bitching behind their back will not happen, you wouldn’t steal from them (girlfriend/boyfriend inclusive)… ultimately you will have them in mind and their welfare will be a priority.

Imagine if this love now extends to more than one person and someone out their looks after you as well… then the world will be a better place… but as we know this is not the case in reality.
Hatred has taken a big chunk of our hearts… Its not that we don’t love anymore… we still do, but our love is now priced…. The highest paying recipient receives the most of it.
To crown it all, it’s not just the sellers that put a price on their love… even the buyers now place a demand on the value of what they are paying for.

An example will simplify the complexity of my concern. I believe that love is something that we all have and are all ready to share. I also believe that we have an abundance of this love in that (all other things being equal) we can love our siblings without conflict, love all our friends without telling one that our love has run out and love our parents in great measures.
This analysis breaks down when it comes to your spouse but that is because of the constraints put by morality. (Laughs)

In our today world, that abundance of love is very short in supply, and it’s not because the love wells are running dry………we are getting greedier and hoarding the love we have.

In our ignorance and greediness, we have done away with the school of thought that love is diverse and we have adopted a perverted style of One love for all…… and so because there is one love for all, scarcity sets in……

Now, before any misunderstanding erupts… opportunity cost is the first thing that comes to mind…… and we’re faced with choices that should never have been…… “Choosing between your parents and your siblings”… “Choosing between your siblings and your friends”… “Between your spouse and your parents”…… “or between your girlfriend and the rest of your family”……

For some of us… we are just ignorant and the society we live in helps our ignorance… One thing we must understand is …… you may not want some people in your life…… but never let it be because the love you have cannot go round.

We don’t have to make these horrible choices…… (all things being equal)…… your family were the first set of people you knew…… your siblings knew you because your parents decided to have you… you knew you friends because someone looked after them and ensured that they stayed alive… the friendly advise (as bad or as good they may have been ) helped you make some decisions…… and these friends may have even contributed to your finding the love of your life… or the career of your dreams…… so why would you …… all of a sudden decide that the love that their contributions have grown into cannot go around.

Don’t get me wrong, I know you can’t carry everybody along…… but never let anything buy your love out…

The people in your lives are there for different reasons and to help in different ways…… Learn to love and appreciate them for who they are.
And for you out there who wants another person to yourself…… you can’t be the dad, the mum, the boyfriend, the husband, the friend e.t.c. all alone…… you’ll die young…… So…… wise up… Love has different faces…… learn to express them

Let’s all make the world a better place……